Di Kampung Likas, jiran Nadia terdiri daripada pelbagai kaum dan latar belakang. Ada keluarga Melayu, Cina, India, Kadazandusun dan Bajau. Bagaimanakah Nadia menunjukkan kasih sayang kepada semua jirannya?
love and care = kasih sayang
Love and care mean sincerely caring for others and wishing them safety and happiness. Our neighbours come from different races and backgrounds; in this unit we learn to treat all of them with love regardless of race, religion or physical ability, and to know the ways, benefits and feelings of caring.
Example: Nadia's neighbours include Malay, Chinese, Indian, Kadazandusun and Bajau families.
Watch out: care is for every neighbour, not only for people who are like us.
Kenali
Sayangi semua jiran
Kita menyayangi jiran tanpa mengira kaum, agama, umur atau keupayaan fizikal.
Contoh: Nadia selalu mengajak Jaya, jirannya yang menggunakan alat bantu pendengaran, bermain bersama.
不分背景地关爱 = sayang tanpa mengira latar belakang
真正的关爱不看对方是什么种族、信什么宗教、年纪多大或身体是否方便。每一位邻居都值得被友善对待。
例子:娜迪亚常常邀请戴助听器的邻居贾雅一起玩。
注意:因为别人不一样就排挤他,是缺乏爱心的表现。
caring regardless of background = sayang tanpa mengira latar belakang
True care does not depend on someone's race, religion, age or physical ability. Every neighbour deserves to be treated kindly.
Example: Nadia often invites Jaya, her neighbour who uses a hearing aid, to play together.
Watch out: leaving someone out because they are different shows a lack of care.
Semak kefahaman
Seorang kanak-kanak Bajau baru berpindah ke taman Nadia. Dia belum ada kawan. Apakah tindakan penyayang?
including a new friend = terima kawan baharu
A newly arrived child has no friends yet and may feel lonely. What would a caring person do to make them feel accepted?
Example: inviting a new classmate to have lunch together.
Watch out: playing only with friends of the same race can make others feel left out.
Fahami
Cara menyayangi jiran
Kasih sayang boleh ditunjukkan melalui perbuatan kecil setiap hari:
bertanya khabar dan menziarahi jiran yang sakit
berkongsi makanan dengan jiran
menemani jiran yang sedih atau kesunyian
Contoh: Ketika Nenek Siew Lan pulang dari hospital, Nadia dan ibunya menghantar sup dan menemaninya berbual.
关爱的方法 = cara menunjukkan kasih sayang
关爱可以从小事做起:问候邻居、探望生病的邻居、分享食物、在邻居难过时陪伴他。只要真心,每个小行动都是爱心。
例子:秀兰奶奶出院回家,娜迪亚和妈妈送汤过去,陪她聊天。
注意:关爱要持续,不是只在节日才表现。
ways to care = cara menunjukkan kasih sayang
Care starts with small things: greeting neighbours, visiting sick neighbours, sharing food and keeping someone company when they are sad. When sincere, every small act is love.
Example: when Nenek Siew Lan comes home from hospital, Nadia and her mother bring soup and chat with her.
Watch out: care should continue every day, not only during festivals.
Semak kefahaman
Pak Cik Ramli tinggal seorang diri selepas anaknya bekerja di luar negeri. Apakah tanda kasih sayang yang sesuai?
照顾独居邻居 = jiran yang tinggal seorang diri
独居的长辈最需要的常常是有人关心、陪伴。想一想哪一个做法最能让他感受到温暖。
例子:放学经过时跟独居的伯伯打招呼,问他今天好吗。
注意:“完全不打扰”听起来客气,却可能让他更孤单。
caring for a neighbour living alone = jiran yang tinggal seorang diri
An elder living alone often most needs someone to care and keep them company. Think which action best makes him feel warmth.
Example: greeting the uncle who lives alone on your way home from school and asking how he is.
Watch out: 'not disturbing him at all' sounds polite but may leave him lonelier.
Amalkan
Mesra semasa keraian
Semasa majlis keraian kejiranan, kita melayan semua jiran dengan mesra dan sopan, terutama tetamu yang tidak dikenali.
Contoh: Di majlis Pesta Kaamatan di taman, Nadia membantu menghidangkan makanan kepada jiran warga emas terlebih dahulu.
庆祝活动中的关爱 = kasih sayang semasa keraian
社区举办庆祝活动时,我们可以热情、礼貌地招呼每一位邻居,特别照顾年长者、小孩和第一次来的人,让大家都感到被欢迎。
例子:社区的丰收节活动上,娜迪亚先替年长的邻居端上食物。
注意:不要只顾着和熟悉的朋友玩,冷落了其他邻居。
care during celebrations = kasih sayang semasa keraian
At community celebrations, we can welcome every neighbour warmly and politely, especially looking after elders, small children and first-time guests, so everyone feels welcome.
Example: at the neighbourhood Kaamatan festival, Nadia serves food to elderly neighbours first.
Watch out: do not stay only with familiar friends and ignore other neighbours.
Semak kefahaman
Mengapakah kita perlu melayan jiran dengan mesra semasa majlis keraian?
想想原因 = fikirkan sebab
这题问“为什么”要热情对待邻居。答案和邻居的感受、邻里关系有关,不是和我们自己得到什么有关。
例子:热情招呼新邻居,他以后也更愿意参加社区活动。
注意:分清楚“关爱别人”和“为自己着想”。
thinking about reasons = fikirkan sebab
This question asks why we should welcome neighbours warmly. The answer is about the neighbours' feelings and the relationship, not about what we get.
Example: greeting a new neighbour warmly makes them keener to join community events later.
Watch out: tell the difference between caring for others and thinking of yourself.
Amalkan
Sokongan jiran membawa kejayaan
Kata semangat dan sokongan jiran boleh menjadi pendorong kejayaan seseorang.
Contoh: Jiran-jiran selalu memberi semangat kepada Farid yang berlatih badminton. Akhirnya Farid memenangi kejohanan peringkat negeri.
支持与鼓励 = sokongan dan dorongan
邻居的一句鼓励、一次陪伴,可能成为别人成功的动力(pendorong kejayaan)。看到邻居在努力,我们可以为他打气,他失败时安慰他。
例子:邻居们常常为练羽毛球的法立打气,后来他赢得州级比赛。
注意:嘲笑别人的失败,会让他失去信心。
support and encouragement = sokongan dan dorongan
A neighbour's word of encouragement or company can drive someone to succeed (pendorong kejayaan). When a neighbour is working hard, we can cheer them on and comfort them when they fail.
Example: the neighbours often cheer for Farid, who practises badminton, and he finally wins the state championship.
Watch out: laughing at someone's failure makes them lose confidence.
Semak kefahaman
Mei Ling kalah dalam pertandingan bercerita. Apakah yang patut dikatakan oleh Nadia, jirannya?
说鼓励的话 = beri kata semangat
朋友比赛输了会难过。有爱心的邻居会说什么话,让她重新振作?哪一句会让她更伤心?
例子:“没关系,我们下次再一起练习。”
注意:泼冷水的话会伤害别人的心。
saying encouraging words = beri kata semangat
A friend who loses a competition feels sad. What would a caring neighbour say to lift her spirits, and which sentences would hurt her more?
Example: 'Never mind, let's practise together again next time.'
Watch out: discouraging words hurt people's feelings.
Padankan
Padankan dengan jenisnya: cara, kebaikan atau perasaan
telling ways, benefits and feelings apart = cara, kebaikan, perasaan
A way (cara) is something we do; a benefit (kebaikan) is the good result it brings; a feeling (perasaan) is an emotion inside us. Decide which type each sentence is, then match.
Example: 'bringing food to a neighbour' is a way; 'the neighbour feels warmth' is a benefit; 'I feel happy' is a feeling.
Watch out: an action verb usually signals a way.
Amalkan
Jiran mendapat cahaya mata
Apabila jiran mendapat cahaya mata, kita boleh mengucapkan tahniah, melawat pada waktu yang sesuai dan membawa buah tangan.
Contoh: Keluarga Puan Mary mendapat bayi lelaki. Seminggu kemudian, Nadia sekeluarga melawat dan memberi sehelai selimut kecil.
邻居添丁 = jiran mendapat cahaya mata
邻居家生了宝宝(cahaya mata),我们可以道贺,在适当的时候去探望,带一份小礼物(buah tangan)。探望时要小声,不要逗留太久,也要先洗手才碰宝宝。
例子:玛丽太太生了男孩,一个星期后,娜迪亚一家去探望,送上一条小毯子。
注意:妈妈和宝宝需要休息,生病的人不宜去探望。
a neighbour's new baby = jiran mendapat cahaya mata
When a neighbour has a new baby (cahaya mata), we can congratulate them, visit at a suitable time and bring a small gift (buah tangan). During the visit, speak softly, do not stay long and wash your hands before touching the baby.
Example: Puan Mary has a baby boy; a week later Nadia's family visits and gives a small blanket.
Watch out: mother and baby need rest, and anyone who is ill should not visit.
Semak kefahaman
Apakah perkara yang perlu diingat semasa melawat bayi jiran?
visiting a baby = adab melawat bayi
A newborn and its mother both need quiet and rest. Think which action is most considerate.
Example: speak softly during the visit and leave after about fifteen minutes.
Watch out: always get the parents' permission before holding a baby.
benefits of care = kebaikan kasih sayang
When neighbours care for each other, what does the community become? Think of words like trust and unity (bersatu padu).
Example: in a caring neighbourhood, everyone comes to help when someone falls ill.
Watch out: caring is not a licence to use other people's things as we like.
Ringkasan
Syabas!
Sayangi jiran kita
Sayangi semua jiran tanpa mengira latar belakang, tunjukkan kasih sayang melalui perbuatan, beri sokongan dan raikan kegembiraan jiran bersama-sama.