Unit 4

Berterima Kasih

Kak Nurul, jiran sebelah rumah, membantu Danial membuat latihan Matematik setiap petang.
Markah Danial dalam ujian semakin baik.
Bagaimanakah Danial boleh menunjukkan penghargaan kepada Kak Nurul?

berterima kasih = 感恩、道谢别人帮了我们，我们记在心里，并用言语或行动表达谢意，这就是感恩。这个单元学习用不同方式感谢邻居，明白道谢的好处，也体会道谢时的心情。例子：邻居努鲁姐姐每天傍晚教达尼尔做数学，达尼尔的分数进步了。注意：感谢不一定要送东西，真诚的一句话也很有意义。

being grateful = berterima kasih When others help us, we remember it and show our thanks through words or actions. In this unit we learn different ways to thank neighbours, see why thanking matters and feel what it is like. Example: Kak Nurul next door helps Danial with maths every evening, and his marks improve. Watch out: thanks need not be a gift; a sincere sentence also means a lot.

Kenali

Cara berterima kasih kepada jiran

Ada banyak cara untuk menghargai jasa jiran:

mengucapkan “terima kasih” dengan senyuman
memberi kad ucapan atau cenderamata
membalas budi dengan membantu jiran pula

Contoh: Danial menulis kad ucapan terima kasih dan menghadiahkannya kepada Kak Nurul bersama sebiji kek kecil buatan ibunya.

道谢的方法 = cara berterima kasih 感谢邻居有很多种方法：当面说“谢谢”、写感谢卡、送一份小礼物，或在邻居需要时反过来帮助他（membalas budi，报恩）。选择适合的方式，最重要的是真心。例子：达尼尔写了一张感谢卡，和妈妈做的小蛋糕一起送给努鲁姐姐。注意：说谢谢时要看着对方、面带微笑，才显得有诚意。

ways to say thanks = cara berterima kasih There are many ways to thank a neighbour: saying 'thank you' in person, writing a thank-you card, giving a small gift, or helping them in return when they need it (membalas budi). Choose a suitable way; sincerity matters most. Example: Danial writes a thank-you card and gives it to Kak Nurul with a small cake his mother baked. Watch out: look at the person and smile when you say thanks so it sounds sincere.

Semak kefahaman

Jiran Mei Ling, Puan Rosnah, menjaga adiknya ketika ibu Mei Ling ke klinik. Apakah cara berterima kasih yang sesuai?

真诚地感谢 = berterima kasih dengan ikhlas 邻居帮忙不是理所当然的。想一想：怎样做能让邻居感受到我们的感激，而不是把帮忙变成买卖？例子：邻居帮忙收衣服，下次邻居忙的时候，我们也帮他收。注意：用钱“还清”人情，会让好意变得冷冰冰。

thanking sincerely = berterima kasih dengan ikhlas A neighbour's help is not something to take for granted. Think: how can we show real gratitude without turning help into a trade? Example: a neighbour brings in our laundry, so next time they are busy we bring in theirs. Watch out: 'paying off' kindness with money makes the goodwill feel cold.

Fahami

Kebaikan amalan berterima kasih

Amalan berterima kasih mengeratkan hubungan antara jiran. Jiran berasa jasanya dihargai dan lebih suka tolong-menolong.

Contoh: Sejak Danial selalu berterima kasih, Kak Nurul semakin rapat dengan keluarganya. Mereka sering berkongsi juadah.

道谢的好处 = kebaikan berterima kasih 常常道谢，邻居会觉得自己的付出被看见、被珍惜，大家的关系更亲密（hubungan erat），也更愿意互相帮忙，社区自然和谐。例子：达尼尔常常道谢，努鲁姐姐和他们一家越来越熟，还常常分享食物。注意：不道谢，邻居下次可能就不太想帮忙了。

benefits of gratitude = kebaikan berterima kasih When we often say thanks, neighbours feel their effort is noticed and valued; relationships grow closer (hubungan erat), people are more willing to help each other, and the community becomes harmonious. Example: because Danial always thanks her, Kak Nurul grows closer to his family and they often share food. Watch out: without thanks, a neighbour may feel less willing to help next time.

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Apakah kebaikan mengamalkan sikap berterima kasih kepada jiran?

想想好处 = fikirkan kebaikan 这题问的是“感恩”带来的好处。好处通常和人与人之间的关系有关，而不是得到什么东西。例子：感谢邻居后，两家人常常互相问候。注意：道谢不是为了以后得到礼物。

think of the benefit = fikirkan kebaikan This question asks what good comes from gratitude. The benefit is usually about relationships between people, not about receiving things. Example: after thanking a neighbour, the two families greet each other often. Watch out: we do not say thanks in order to get gifts later.

Amalkan

Hargai jasa jiran semasa kecemasan

Ada jiran yang membantu ketika kita sakit atau menghadapi kecemasan. Kita perlu mengenang dan meraikan jasa mereka.

Contoh: Pak Cik Gopal menghantar ayah Danial ke hospital pada waktu malam. Selepas sembuh, keluarga Danial menjemput Pak Cik Gopal makan bersama.

感念恩情 = kenang jasa 在我们生病或遇到紧急状况时，伸出援手的邻居对我们有很大的恩情（jasa）。事后要记得道谢，也可以请他们吃饭、探望他们，表达心意。例子：戈帕尔伯伯半夜送达尼尔的爸爸去医院，爸爸康复后，全家请他来吃饭。注意：过了很久也不要忘记别人的帮助。

remembering kindness = kenang jasa Neighbours who help when we are sick or in an emergency have done us a great kindness (jasa). Afterwards, remember to thank them, and we can invite them for a meal or visit them to show our appreciation. Example: Pak Cik Gopal drives Danial's father to hospital late at night; after he recovers, the family invites Pak Cik Gopal for a meal. Watch out: do not forget someone's help even after a long time.

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Beg tangan ibu Siti diragut. Jirannya, Encik Firdaus, membantu membuat laporan polis. Apakah tindakan Siti sekeluarga yang sesuai?

被帮助之后 = selepas dibantu 邻居在我们遇到抢劫这类可怕的事时帮忙，是很大的恩情。想一想哪一个做法能表现我们的感激。例子：邻居帮忙报警，事后我们登门道谢。注意：怪罪帮忙的人，会让好心人心寒。

after being helped = selepas dibantu A neighbour who helps when something frightening like a snatch theft happens has done us a big favour. Think which action shows our gratitude. Example: a neighbour helps us call the police, and afterwards we visit to thank them. Watch out: blaming the helper discourages kind people.

Fikir

Jika tidak berterima kasih

Jika kita tidak menghargai bantuan, jiran mungkin berasa kecil hati. Hubungan menjadi renggang dan semangat tolong-menolong berkurang.

Contoh: Seorang budak meminjam tangga jiran tetapi memulangkannya tanpa sepatah kata. Jiran itu berasa sedih.

不感恩的后果 = akibat tidak berterima kasih 如果别人帮了我们，我们却一句谢谢都没有，对方会觉得不被重视、心里难过（kecil hati），慢慢就疏远了，社区里互相帮忙的风气也会变弱。例子：一个孩子借了邻居的梯子，还的时候什么也没说，邻居很失落。注意：小小的一句谢谢，就能避免这样的误会。

if we are not grateful = akibat tidak berterima kasih If someone helps us and we do not even say thanks, they feel unappreciated and hurt (kecil hati). Slowly they drift away, and the habit of helping each other in the community weakens. Example: a boy borrows a neighbour's ladder and returns it without a word, and the neighbour feels sad. Watch out: a simple thank-you can prevent this kind of hurt.

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Apakah yang mungkin berlaku jika kita tidak pernah berterima kasih kepada jiran?

推想后果 = jangka kesan 站在邻居的立场想：你帮了别人很多次，对方都没有表示，你会怎么想？以后还会那么热心吗？例子：同学帮你捡起书却没听到谢谢，他也会有点失望。注意：这一题要选的是不好的结果。

imagining the result = jangka kesan Put yourself in the neighbour's place: if you helped someone many times and they never showed thanks, how would you feel? Would you still be so eager to help? Example: a classmate picks up your book and hears no thanks, so they feel a little let down. Watch out: this question asks for an unpleasant result.

Ingat

Ikhlas lebih bermakna

Berterima kasih tidak semestinya dengan barang mahal. Kad buatan sendiri, buah-buahan dari kebun atau bantuan tenaga juga bermakna jika dilakukan dengan ikhlas.

Contoh: Danial menyediakan sebakul kecil buah rambutan dari pokok di rumahnya untuk Kak Nurul.

真心最重要 = keikhlasan lebih bermakna 感谢的礼物不必很贵。自己做的卡片、自家种的水果、帮忙做家务，只要是真心的（ikhlas），对方都会感受到。比较礼物的价钱，反而失去了感谢的意义。例子：达尼尔准备了一小篮自家的红毛丹送给努鲁姐姐。注意：不要因为买不起贵的礼物，就不去道谢。

sincerity matters more = keikhlasan lebih bermakna A thank-you gift need not be expensive. A homemade card, fruit from your own garden or helping with chores all mean a lot when done sincerely (ikhlas). Comparing gift prices misses the point of thanking. Example: Danial prepares a small basket of rambutans from his own tree for Kak Nurul. Watch out: do not skip thanking someone just because you cannot afford a costly gift.

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Pernyataan manakah yang betul tentang cenderamata tanda terima kasih?

判断说法 = nilai pernyataan 逐句想一想：感谢的价值在于礼物的价钱，还是在于心意？只有一个说法符合“真心最重要”这个道理。例子：一张手写的卡片，也能让邻居开心好几天。注意：看到“mestilah（一定要）”这类绝对的字眼，要特别小心判断。

judging statements = nilai pernyataan Think about each sentence: does the value of thanks lie in the price of the gift or in the heart behind it? Only one statement matches the idea that sincerity matters most. Example: a handwritten card can make a neighbour happy for days. Watch out: be careful with absolute words such as 'mestilah' (must).

Padankan

Padankan situasi dengan cara berterima kasih

配对道谢方式 = padankan cara berterima kasih 先看邻居帮了我们什么，再选一个相配的道谢方法：教我们读书的，可以用心写一张卡；送食物的，可以回送食物；帮我们做事的，就反过来帮他做事。例子：邻居帮你修脚车，你可以帮他洗车。注意：每种情况都有最合适的一种方式，配对时要想清楚。

matching ways to thank = padankan cara berterima kasih First see what the neighbour did for us, then choose a fitting way to thank them: for teaching us, a heartfelt card; for food, food in return; for doing a task, doing a task for them. Example: a neighbour fixes your bicycle, so you help wash their car. Watch out: each situation has one best match, so think carefully.

Rasai

Bagaimanakah perasaan Danial selepas menghargai jasa Kak Nurul?

道谢后的心情 = perasaan selepas berterima kasih 把心中的感谢表达出来以后，人通常会觉得开心、心里踏实（lega），因为终于回报了别人的好意。例子：送完感谢卡，看到邻居很感动，自己也笑了。注意：舍不得送出去的东西，就不是真心的礼物。

feelings after thanking = perasaan selepas berterima kasih After we express our thanks, we usually feel happy and relieved (lega), because we have finally returned someone's kindness. Example: after giving a thank-you card and seeing the neighbour touched, you smile too. Watch out: something you are unwilling to give away is not a sincere gift.

Ringkasan

Syabas!

Berterima kasih kepada jiran

Ucapkan terima kasih, hargai jasa jiran semasa kecemasan, balas budi dengan ikhlas dan ingat bahawa hadiah ringkas pun bermakna.

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